Love doesn’t die a natural death. Love has to be killed, either by neglect or narcissism
We all love to be in a relationship, to have someone who loves you as much as you love them. To make you feel beautiful and spoil you all the time, to do all those nice little things for you and make you feel so lucky you found them in the first place.
But as lovely as the idea is sometimes it doesn’t seem to work because you end up feeling neglected, used, lied to, and emotionally abused. These feeling start to consume you as you wonder what is wrong and how you can change the situation.
There are different reasons that one relationship might not work. Some may have a solution and some it’s better to let go. If the narcissism is the factor it’s advisable to better let go as narcissts are created in that way that they can never change.
But how do you know if your significant other is a narcissists? How to spot a narcissists?
These quotes for narcissists will help you realize one.
Since narcissists deep down feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world’s fault.
M. Scott Peck
A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colors.
The lion is most handsome when looking for food.
Narcissists will destroy your life, erode your self-esteem, and do it with such stealth as to make you feel that you are the one that’s letting them down
Nobody can be kinder than the narcissist while you react to life on his terms.
How starved you must have been that my heart became a meal for your ego
Narcissistic love is riding on the rollercoaster of disaster filled with a heart full of tears.
A man who loves others based solely on how they make him feel, or what they do for him, is really not loving others at all — but loving only himself
The narcissist devours people, consumes their output, and casts the empty, writhing shells aside.
There was nothing more unattractive than narcissism, she thought: nothing could transform beauty into a cloying, unattractive quality than that self-conscious appreciation of self.
Alexander McCall Smith
Love doesn’t die a natural death. Love has to be killed, either by neglect or narcissism.
Withhold admiration from a narcissist and be disliked. Give it and be treated with indifference.
Narcissists have poor self-esteem, but they are typically very successful. They feel entitled; they’re self-important; they crave admiration and lack empathy. They are also exploitative and envious. The malignant types never forget a slight. They may kill you ten years later for cutting them off in traffic. But they act perfectly normal while plotting their revenge.
Relationships with narcissists are held in place by hope of a ‘someday better,’ with little evidence to support it will ever arrive.
Sadly, when many individuals realize that the narcissist is insecure and isn’t reassured, they try harder to love this person. Additionally, the narcissist blames his her behavior on something that you are or aren’t doing, and a hooked person we may try to ‘do it better’ or ‘get it right.’ Your increased efforts to love and fix the narcissist only lines you up for more abuse.
Melanie Tonia Evans
Relationship with a narcissist in a nutshell: You will go from being the perfect love of their life, to nothing you do is ever good enough. You will give your everything and they will take it all and give you less and less in return. You will end up depleted, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and probably financially, and then get blamed for it.
When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.
Narcissism leads to a very toxic relationship where the narcissists makes the other one suffer mentally and spiritually. So it’s very important to recognize the signs of a narcissist and act immediately to escape from the suffering. It’s hopeless to try to change a narcissist.